Dating and Relationship support
You can have fun dating again!
Alright I know you may not agree right now, but you too can actually have fun dating again!
Some of us get to a certain age and say "I am better off without anyone". Of course it is fine to choose being single, as long as you really "choose" to be single. Many of us don't really choose being single. We just get resigned and cynical over time and give up. If this is you, don't worry, Dating Coach for Seniors would love to help you. I have been there before! Don't you think it is finally time for you to enjoy dating?
I know you might not want to waste your time dating someone who is not the person you will marry or become your life partner. But what if every person you meet is the KEY to eventually meeting the person of your dreams? Instead of thinking of this person as a waste of time, what if you thought of this person as a very helpful person who helped you grow and become closer to your dream mate? Do you remember times in your life when you were just having fun with friends, family, on the job? You almost felt like a kid again- you were having so much fun! Some of your best times were when you were not "expecting" anything. Letting go of attachment frees you up to really be yourself. Once you are yourself, you will not only have more fun but you can really see clearly and possibly find the partner of your dreams. Also, if you just want to date, there is nothing wrong with that as long as you are honest with your dating partner.
Letting go of being attached to the outcome is so freeing! When I finally decided to go out and have fun and enjoy my dates, I was able to find the person of my dreams. I found the most wonderful man. He is patient, wise, kind, intelligent, loving and lots of FUN! He accepts me just like I am. He never wants to change me. How did I find this man? I let go of any attachment of being with him. I went on dates with only one purpose- to have fun and get to know him better. After each date I checked in with myself to see if I had a great time. I decided to keep dating him as long as I was enjoying myself. Well, guess what, 6 years later I am still having a great time with this wonderful man. I have learned so much and have grown more than I have in my entire life. I am so grateful that I finally threw away my list of shallow qualifications and found a real man.
Your odds of finding someone very special is a lot higher if you are in action, learning and growing from the experience, working on yourself, and not being attached to the results. This is a unique opportunity for people in life to go beyond what they know about dating and relationships. You will have fun and maybe meet that extraordinary person you have dreamed of! Why hire a Dating Coach for Seniors? Sometimes we need a little support with the dating process. Dating Coach Cathy helps midlife or older women have more fun, feel more confident, meet more men, understand men and possibly date online if you choose to do so. As your Dating Coach for Seniors, I can help you enjoy the dating process and/or support you in creating the possibility of a loving relationship again. (I also coach men who want to create the possibility for a loving relationship and want to settle down with an amazing woman.
Get the expert dating guidance and support you need to be successful in your dating and/or relationship journey!
I would recommend a dating coach if:
If even one of these statements fits with you, dating coaching with Cathy will make all the difference in your ability to have fun on dates and possibly find love.
If having fun on dates is only what you desire, I can help you:
1. Have fun on your dates! Dating doesn't have to be a chore, you can have fun and continue to learn about yourself.
2. Be more present on dates. If you show the real you, the odds that your partner might also be real are alot higher.
3. Plan great dates that will be a hit!
4. Provide you dating ebooks to read and discuss
5. Help you create your online ad and support you in the online process (if you choose to date online).
6. Support you with breakdowns, fears, conversations, questions, etc. between dates
If you want to create the possibility of attracting a loving relationship, I can help you:
1. Have dating be a fun and learning process. I will help you with all the 6 areas above
2. Create a great foundation for you to find a loving partner through questions, exercises and coaching conversations.
Some coaching conversations may include:
For logistics, costs, questions or to hire a Dating Coach, click here.
You can have fun dating again!
Alright I know you may not agree right now, but you too can actually have fun dating again!
Some of us get to a certain age and say "I am better off without anyone". Of course it is fine to choose being single, as long as you really "choose" to be single. Many of us don't really choose being single. We just get resigned and cynical over time and give up. If this is you, don't worry, Dating Coach for Seniors would love to help you. I have been there before! Don't you think it is finally time for you to enjoy dating?
I know you might not want to waste your time dating someone who is not the person you will marry or become your life partner. But what if every person you meet is the KEY to eventually meeting the person of your dreams? Instead of thinking of this person as a waste of time, what if you thought of this person as a very helpful person who helped you grow and become closer to your dream mate? Do you remember times in your life when you were just having fun with friends, family, on the job? You almost felt like a kid again- you were having so much fun! Some of your best times were when you were not "expecting" anything. Letting go of attachment frees you up to really be yourself. Once you are yourself, you will not only have more fun but you can really see clearly and possibly find the partner of your dreams. Also, if you just want to date, there is nothing wrong with that as long as you are honest with your dating partner.
Letting go of being attached to the outcome is so freeing! When I finally decided to go out and have fun and enjoy my dates, I was able to find the person of my dreams. I found the most wonderful man. He is patient, wise, kind, intelligent, loving and lots of FUN! He accepts me just like I am. He never wants to change me. How did I find this man? I let go of any attachment of being with him. I went on dates with only one purpose- to have fun and get to know him better. After each date I checked in with myself to see if I had a great time. I decided to keep dating him as long as I was enjoying myself. Well, guess what, 6 years later I am still having a great time with this wonderful man. I have learned so much and have grown more than I have in my entire life. I am so grateful that I finally threw away my list of shallow qualifications and found a real man.
Your odds of finding someone very special is a lot higher if you are in action, learning and growing from the experience, working on yourself, and not being attached to the results. This is a unique opportunity for people in life to go beyond what they know about dating and relationships. You will have fun and maybe meet that extraordinary person you have dreamed of! Why hire a Dating Coach for Seniors? Sometimes we need a little support with the dating process. Dating Coach Cathy helps midlife or older women have more fun, feel more confident, meet more men, understand men and possibly date online if you choose to do so. As your Dating Coach for Seniors, I can help you enjoy the dating process and/or support you in creating the possibility of a loving relationship again. (I also coach men who want to create the possibility for a loving relationship and want to settle down with an amazing woman.
Get the expert dating guidance and support you need to be successful in your dating and/or relationship journey!
I would recommend a dating coach if:
- You haven’t had a date in a year or more
- You attract men or women with similar flaws
- You can’t remember how to flirt or aren’t sure why you should bother
- You don’t get many second dates
- You complain more about dating than you actually date
- You feel frustrated with dating and don’t understand the opposite sex
- You want to have fun on dates without taking each date so seriously
- You want to create the possibility of a loving partner in your life
If even one of these statements fits with you, dating coaching with Cathy will make all the difference in your ability to have fun on dates and possibly find love.
If having fun on dates is only what you desire, I can help you:
1. Have fun on your dates! Dating doesn't have to be a chore, you can have fun and continue to learn about yourself.
2. Be more present on dates. If you show the real you, the odds that your partner might also be real are alot higher.
3. Plan great dates that will be a hit!
4. Provide you dating ebooks to read and discuss
5. Help you create your online ad and support you in the online process (if you choose to date online).
6. Support you with breakdowns, fears, conversations, questions, etc. between dates
If you want to create the possibility of attracting a loving relationship, I can help you:
1. Have dating be a fun and learning process. I will help you with all the 6 areas above
2. Create a great foundation for you to find a loving partner through questions, exercises and coaching conversations.
Some coaching conversations may include:
- What you want and don’t want in a relationship (most important areas)
- How you sabotage relationships
- Breakdown triggers and breakthrough moments (what brings you back to being) in relationships
- Patterns when dating and in relationships
- Fears-What gets you afraid in relationship? What are you hiding or afraid your partner will find out about you?
- Self Defense- How do you cover up fear in relationships?
- Essence- Who are you behind all of your fears and self-defense? This is what attracts people to you in the first place.
- Creating the relationship of your dreams from your essence. What would that look like?
- Ideal partnership. What would that look like?
- How do you avoid intimacy?
- Your future dreams, goals, commitments.
For logistics, costs, questions or to hire a Dating Coach, click here.
Support for Relationships
I am also a Couples Conflict Coach. I help couples identify problem areas and breakdowns in communication. I help you listen to each other and problem solve together. You don't have to spend years in therapy.
Some couples have such a major breakdown in communication that they no longer are able to have a constructive discussion. They are so angry and hurt that arguing and blaming each other is starting to happen more and more each day. Often one of the partners walks away very upset, or become silent or passive at any sign of conflict. Additional conflicts start to build on the first one the more time goes by without resolution. Your relationship may be at this stage. Or, you could just be having minor problems and don't want them to get worse. In either situation, I can help.
Finding fault with a partner is easy; seeing and changing our own contributions to relationship or marriage conflict is a bit more challenging..You need to really ask yourself. Do I want to be "Right" or do I want to make the relationship work? Does your partner want to be "Right" or does your partner want to make this work?
If both of you want to make this work but may not know how, I can work with you as your Couples Conflict Coach.
I do not pick sides. I remain neutral because this is not about one of you winning. It is about the two of you collaborating to make things work.
f you’re committed to having the relationship you’ve always wanted or want to save your marriage, I can work with you and your partner to move past communication challenges, power struggles or conflict that can destroy your relationship. Below are some of the outcomes of working with a Couples Conflict Coach.
Imagine each day feeling that your partner loves you, respects you, appreciates you, and is committed to the relationship. You also feel connected and close to your partner. Looking at your partner brings a smile to your face. Life is starting to feel wonderful again! You can have that feeling too, and probably a lot faster than you think
Please click here for services. If you live in the San Jose Bay Area, I can meet you in downtown San Jose. If you are not able to travel, we can have our coaching calls over the phone. If you prefer coaching with Dr. John Gray's online program, click here to find out more.
You can also "Like" Conflict Skills Coach on Facebook to receive free weekly tips and resources!
I am also a Couples Conflict Coach. I help couples identify problem areas and breakdowns in communication. I help you listen to each other and problem solve together. You don't have to spend years in therapy.
Some couples have such a major breakdown in communication that they no longer are able to have a constructive discussion. They are so angry and hurt that arguing and blaming each other is starting to happen more and more each day. Often one of the partners walks away very upset, or become silent or passive at any sign of conflict. Additional conflicts start to build on the first one the more time goes by without resolution. Your relationship may be at this stage. Or, you could just be having minor problems and don't want them to get worse. In either situation, I can help.
Finding fault with a partner is easy; seeing and changing our own contributions to relationship or marriage conflict is a bit more challenging..You need to really ask yourself. Do I want to be "Right" or do I want to make the relationship work? Does your partner want to be "Right" or does your partner want to make this work?
If both of you want to make this work but may not know how, I can work with you as your Couples Conflict Coach.
I do not pick sides. I remain neutral because this is not about one of you winning. It is about the two of you collaborating to make things work.
f you’re committed to having the relationship you’ve always wanted or want to save your marriage, I can work with you and your partner to move past communication challenges, power struggles or conflict that can destroy your relationship. Below are some of the outcomes of working with a Couples Conflict Coach.
- Fight Fair: Learn to talk straight, set boundaries and stand up for yourself in a way that is loving and creates connection
- Put the past in the past: Stop sabotaging your relationship with past unresolved childhood issues or ex partners that manifest as recurring patterns in your relationship
- Stop the push/pull Dynamic: One person doesn't have to keep chasing the other for attention while the other withdraws . Both of you can get your needs met.
- Learn to manage Conflict: Learn new communication skills that can have you move quickly through conflict and on to enjoying life together
- Feel Safe and Understood: Learn to understand and appreciate each other’s unique personality traits. Create a safe space that welcomes intimacy.
- Get Your Needs Met: Discover both of your needs, wants and requirements and learn how to get them met. Learn how to balance your partnership while maintaining your individual self and not giving up on your needs.
- Inspiring Future: Create a mutual, inspiring vision that will support your relationship even through challenging times. The vision will have you moving forward and not backwards.
- Create Emotional trust and Intimacy: Learn how to quickly build emotional intimacy with your partner that keeps you connected.
Imagine each day feeling that your partner loves you, respects you, appreciates you, and is committed to the relationship. You also feel connected and close to your partner. Looking at your partner brings a smile to your face. Life is starting to feel wonderful again! You can have that feeling too, and probably a lot faster than you think
Please click here for services. If you live in the San Jose Bay Area, I can meet you in downtown San Jose. If you are not able to travel, we can have our coaching calls over the phone. If you prefer coaching with Dr. John Gray's online program, click here to find out more.
You can also "Like" Conflict Skills Coach on Facebook to receive free weekly tips and resources!